Who do I choose? (Please read description)

Question

Boy 1: is madly in love with me, has a year long past with me, treats me right, has amazing sex with me, is younger than me, has a very loving family who accepts me & it's looking for marriage & future with me soon. However, doesn't want children for a while. I want them now. He has never done drugs, smoked, cheated & rarely drinks.

Boy 2: is madly in love with me, has a 12 year long past with me, treats me right, has alright sex with me, is a few months older than me, his family hates me. He is looking for a marriage & future with me soon, & wants children right now. He has done drugs & still smokes weed, has smoked cigs but willing to quit for me, drinks rarely, & has never cheated.

I love both of them.

Accepted Answer

Neither of them deserve to be treated like an option. Somebody is out there searching for them as their number one all time first pick. If you have to even weigh them out together against each other, I don't think either of them is right for you if you have to post a poll  on here about the tough decision. I would be heart broken if I found out my husband had to take a vote on who he should've chosen, me or the next best girl. This is sad. I vote let them both go and find the right ONE.

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If you have to pick between two, then it's not real love anyway you look at it. Be with somebody who is somebody you can't live without, somebody who you can't compare to anyone.

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I voted for Boy 1 because his family loves you. That's HUGE when it comes to relationships. Their family can make or break your relationship.  Also, after a few years he may be more interested in babies once a relationship is built. 😊

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I voted boy one because my In Laws are seriously the devil!!! They are so incredibly mean to me and now they are starting in on my unborn son! Don't do it it's not worth the drama! And trust me everything will be drama!!!

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Just a small thing about children. I have wanted kids since I was 22. I'm now 27 about to be 28 and am just now pregnant. If that is the only down side to boy number 1 I'd choose him easy!! Kids don't just happen anyway. Just because your 'ready' now doesn't mean you will get pregnant right away anyway.

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If you were really in love with either of them, it wouldn't even be a choice. It's not a game and their feelings should be taken seriously, not pick which one is better. Neither of them can change how their families are, how long they've known you, or what they've done in the past.

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Choose boy 2 cuz if you were actually in love with boy 1 you would have never fell In love with boy 2

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