Husband doesn't get it

I had a miscarriage about 5 weeks ago and am still struggling daily. Being a mom is the only thing I have ever wanted to do in life, and I feel devastated that it was taken from me. My husband just doesn't get the depth of my pain. And he doesn't get the urgency I feel about TTC again. I am turning 35 in April and am just so anxious about getting pregnant again. I fear the first time it was just a fluke and it won't ever happen again. And my husband just says it will happen again....how do I deal with the anxiety?