"Too Young"

Leah • Always trying to better know my body.
I've seen phrases along the lines of: "if you're not ready to be a mom then you're not ready to have sex," FAAAAR TOOO MUUUCH.
How can you possibly use this as a genuine deterrent to "young" sexuality? You can't possibly judge someone's maturity based on their age. 
Not to mention there are plenty of grown ass adults (myself included (21)) who are having safe and consensual sex and MAGICALLY also aren't ready for children. And I, personally, don't want to have children until I'm 30. And somehow that means I'm "not ready" for sex until I'm 30? 
Let's stop telling women that their sexuality is for the sole purpose of being a mother.