So I live In Virginia with my husband but both mine and his family and In California they really want to throw a baby shower for us but we don't have money to go home for that and back home again when the baby is born there idea was have the party and skyp me when its time to open gifts I appreciate the suggestions but it is difficult to do with shipping gifts back to me and its not yo much fun for me or my husband my idea was to just have an arrival party after our baby is born since we where flying back anyways any others ideas would be appreciated