Is 23 to young to be pregnant? How do I tell family

How do I tell family and friends. I escaped a violent relationship. I'm 23 and pregnant have my whole life ahead of me. Someone approached me asked about my pregnancy said I look soo young. I feel sad like how do I tell people about my life how do I tell church members or stuck up judgemental church women who like to point fingers how do I tell people.

I'm very private so I didn't invite everyone to my wedding or tell people I was married I didn't invite members of my mother's church because I don't know them. So what the heck people act shocked like I'm pregnant excuse me it's not your place to know my business.