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I made a careless mistake by sleeping with two different people 2 days apart and now I'm pregnant 😫. My last period was Nov. 11, and it's regular and lasts 4 days. I had sex Dec. 6th and Dec. 8th.... On Dec. 19th. I had sex again and it's was the most painful sex I've ever had, which was weird because I never cramp like that after sex. So anyways, after that I started feeling really ill and extremely exhausted, and my sister encouraged me to take a test. And of course I did thinking nothing of it. And bam! Big fat positive! That day was Dec. 24th

So, Jan. 3, I went to the doctor and was told I was 6 weeks exactly...  Then I went back on Jan. 5 because I was told I had a hole in my cervix and to come back, and I had another ultrasound and was told I was 7 weeks and 3 days, and they said the measurements I the baby coincided with my lmp. But that would've made my conception date Nov. 28, but I never had sex at all in November. So I'm very confused. Can anybody help with guessing which day I most likely conceived.

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Definitely get a paternity test.

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There's no way you can tell at this point. You will have to wait until the baby is born and then if you are keeping the baby get a paternity test done.

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The days you had intercourse are so close it's not possible to know without a DNA test, maybe if they were a week apart but 2 days is too close, for instance the first guy could have inseminated the egg days later as sperm can live for 5 days so there would have been a point when both guys sperms were in there at the same time. You could get their blood types and when you can the babies blood type or go for a full blown DNA test. It's possible to have only so many blood type combos with each type so it could tell you or it could not especially if they're the same blood type. It's a shitty situation for sure! If one used protection or pulled out and one didn't I'd guess the one that ejaculated in you to be more likely and to start with him first but it's up to you. You could tell them both, I don't know the situation between you and these men but it really could be either and I hope you can figure this out. Good luck and a happy & healthy 9 months!

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Honestly Hun it could be either guy. I know this is tough but I would inform each guy that they could possibly be the father. It's uncomfortable I know but nip it in the butt now before anything gets any worse. Hiding it won't help the situation. Take a paternity test once the baby is born. Good luck to you!

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Not trying to sound rude at all just a question. Why didn't you use protection when sleeping with these guys? Did you plan on getting pregnant?

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Could have been either but if I really had to take a guess I would pick the 6th.

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