Loving sex and being a a girl don't match

Adaihu • I love Erykah Badu
I don't understand what's wrong with me. I don't want to say I'm a nymphomaniac, but it feels that way. When I'm around someone I like all I can think about is having sex with him. And when I try dating holding out is the last thing that I want to do, I give it up on the first date and become a fwb. I'm a hopeless romantic and I've always wanted to be with someone I can kick it with, but my love for sex gets in the way and ruins my chances to chill with someone. And I get attached easily so the casual relationship thing isn't for me. I feel very lonely and used sometimes, and sometimes I feel like the user myself. I'm currently in tears. I don't know how to communicate with men without Sex. I need help.