Social anxiety and OCD?

Does anyone else have this? I'm so shy that it is ruining my life. I'm 26 and I can't even talk to anyone but my boyfriend and parents, otherwise I'm so shy. It's hard with work too. I feel like such a loser and that something is wrong. I haven't talked to a dr about it cause I feel they will think in faking it to get meds. I also have really bad OCD, which is getting worse. Started when I was 4-5 years old, with washing my hands continuously. They would get red and raw cause I washed them so much. Now I just clean over and over and it sucks. My BF thinks I'm crazy haha. How do you deal? Do you take meds? Did the dr have a hard time giving them to you?