Cumming?

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My boyfriend doesn't cum sometimes. We will have sex for 45 minutes and be done because he can't finish and I'm too sore.. Is that because he isn't attracted to me or something..?

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Maybe he just jacks off to much??? I'm not trying to offend you, I just have a lot of guy friends that say the reason they can't finish is because the jack off too much lol

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My husband does this every now and then, I think it's just due to exhaustion, he's fine the next time we go for it.

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How often does it happen? Is he under the influence of drugs or alcohol? Is he stressed out? I know I won't be able to cum if my mind is racing with problems.

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This happens to my husband when he's ate way too much crappy food so he's preoccupied with how shitty he feels or he's drunk.

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There's times that I don't cum while having sex and it's not because I don't love my husband. Sometimes you just can't help it, there have been times I've cried because of it. It's like no matter what he does, even though I want sex, I just can't get turned on and get to feeling good. Do y'all do the same thing a lot? I think that's why I can't sometimes. It's like here we go again.

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My boyfriend is the same way. Some guys need more simulation and some just need to spice things up now and again! Could be a drug he is taking like viagra or a low sex drive.  Try changing things up! Sometimes just pleasing one another is enough :)

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It can happen if he's using Viagra or Cialis to get or stay hard. A lot of young men use it now, specially it they such too much porn, masturbate a bit, been single a while, pressure themselves to perform.
A lot of guys are reluctant for their lady friend to know they take Viagra or Cialis.
So, might be the reason.

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My husband had to do kegal exercises, they help.

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My boyfriend does the same thing, he says he wants me to go off first, and go off multiple times. A couple of times he never did get off because I couldn't take it any longer lol he has a lot of stamina, and he likes to keep going and going...when I asked him about it he said it takes a lot of concentration. So the next time, I told him to take care of himself and it took a few minutes but he did get off. I don't really understand it, but I don't think he's broken or anything..

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My SO has the same thing sometimes, he's usually good to go if we take a break and go for round two. Have you honestly never had sex and just not been able to finish? It's nothing to do with you personally its just something that happens sometimes, he could be stressed or dehydrated or have pleasured himself earlier. A number or things. As long as it's not happening regularly I wouldn't worry.

Cumming?

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