Please I need some advice!!!

Erika
I really need some advice here please.....so yesterday I went in and did my glucose test and well I figured since I'm already there and have go check why I'm having lower back pain (had pain for 2 days but nothing I couldn't handle) the doctor sees me and asks if I were bleeding or had any sort of discharge and I said no. She sends me off to do a pelvic exam(ultrasound) and I go and the lady starts taking pics and then she says I will need to do a VUS and I'm ok. It sucks that they won't show me the screen so I can see the baby or she won't tell if everything is fine. So after I'm done she sends me back to the doctor. The doctor starts looking at the results and turns to me and says "GUESS WHAT?" I'm like idk don't tell me I have 2 babies? She says no the baby has no heartbeat!!!! I'm like wtf really is that how u break news to soon to me mommies. I'm so devastated. Oh the worst part was that she tried sending me to the ER to have a D&C. I'm there alone to begin with and she's pressuring me to go that instant and have that done. I have an appt tomorrow Monday and I will need to see for myself. A second opinion is always good right? I don't want to believe this is true so I have a positive mind set. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this. I'm really scared. If this were to be true, this would be my first miscarriage 😭
Ladies...has anyone had a bad experience with the D&C? Has anyone waited for the body to naturally do what it needs to do?