I'm seeing so many topics being brought up on my feed lately, asking for opinions on certain situations in relationships, specifically 'If my husband/wife does X, what does that mean? What should I do?'

I'm asking this honestly because I'm ultimately confused, but has it not ever occurred to some people, that instead of getting the opinions of complete and utter strangers; wouldn't it be a bit better if they went and talked to their partner directly?

(And Yes, I realise that sometimes its not safe to do so; but I'm talking about the times that it IS. )