I have a pretty intense worry about other people (family, friends) holding my baby. I'm so scared of them hurting her or dropping her, it makes me so anxious.  I'm not sure if it's just because I'm going to be a first time mom or not. Anyone else feel this way? Edit: I feel like an asshole because I honestly don't trust any of my own family except my grandma to hold her, SOs family I trust, and only two of my friends. I don't think it will go too well to only let certain people hold her lol...