When my SO and i have sex it always seems like a rush. When he wants it hes ready to go as soon as he's hard but it takes me a while to get horny but he just seems to want to do it quickly. I even tell him what to do to make me horny and he'll do for about 10 seconds and thats it! He never goes down on me EVER, but wants me to give him a bj. And even the other day he fingered me, went to bathroom washed his hands then came back for sex! I mean i no cum isnt the nicest but it really hurt me and made me feel soo cheap. And to top it all off when we do have sex it is really good but i NEVER orgasm, i fake it and he doesnt no coz i dont want him to think he's rubbish coz he's not. I dont no what to do any advice?