*rant* so one of my family members came over the other day and she starts saying how I need to clean and that our room and bathroom are messy. Um yeah I'm sorry that my husband leaves his clothes piled up on the room and bathroom and that we have a chair with clothes piled up and that my baby's play matt has toys scattered all over I'm sure that every mom understands that when you have a baby they make messes. I'm sorry I'm such a lazy pig. People think that just because you're a stay at home mom you have it easy well they're wrong. I have no other form of help and with taking care of a baby all day I'm left exhausted or don't have time to clean. I do try to clean when my baby's asleep or try to distract my baby with toys while I start to clean but having a clingy baby that won't stay in their walker makes it even harder for me to clean. Its not like were living in a pig sty. I appreciate the honesty but I feel like some comments should be left to yourself. If me having a mess bothers you, then don't come over simple as that. Like they see how small our place we live in is and we don't have dressers to put our clothes in yet give me a break once we get our dressers my house won't be "messy" anymore.