My husband wants to try anal. Last time we did anal was many years ago, and it was horrible because I was new to it and didn't doosh (however you spell it) so little pieces of shit were all on the bed LOL (I'm old enough to laugh about it now). Anyways, he wants to try it again and told me I need to doosh this time haha, but idk which one to use. Will any of them just do? Or what?