Birthing dilemma

This is really stressing me out and I really need some ideas. My husband and I live far away from family with our almost three year old son. I'm currently pregnant with our second child due in July and I don't know what to do with our two year old once the day comes. (Mind you my water broke early at 33 weeks with our first so it's hard to tell when this one will come) long story short we won't have any family or help around to watch our son while I'm at the hospital. Can we bring our toddler with us while I give birth??? I dont have a clue what to do. Did you have your toddler in the room with you? And do you think he would be allowed to sleep there with us overnight so us three can be together?