I was having dinner the other day with my husband. We were talking about the new baby. I told him that I didn't want a baby shower. The last 2 showers I had with my other pregnancies have been planned by my sister yet I end. Up doing a lot of the planning and buying. So I don't really enjoy it. I told him I rather have a small gender reveal dinner and if they want to get something for our baby they are more than welcome to. I just  feel like I was too worried about attending to others at the showers that I don't want to do that this time around. BTW this will be 3rd pregnancy 4th child. What do you guys think?