Baby shower with no games?

My dads ex girlfriend, who I would say is my closest friend, is planning my shower and I told her that I hate baby shower games and don't want them. Maybe just a raffle and some crafting activities? But she insists on playing a baby shower game that involves charades... -__- my least favorite game of all time. I am already socially awkward and having to play charades would give me a lot of anxiety. I don't like when everyone is looking at me and I'm the center of attention, but she insists on it and just says "Wellllll, too bad."
I don't even know if I want to have a shower now...