I don't get it ?

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you women been trying trying trying to get pregnant but as soon as you get pregnant all you do is complain morning sickness heartburn stretch marks oh my God I'm getting so big like that's what comes with pregnancy don't beg for something and then complain about it when people would love to be experiencing all those things.

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Pregnancy sucks. It's the outcome they hope for. They're allowed to complain!!! Hater.

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I tried for over 14 months to get pregnant and thankfully I'm currently 20 weeks pregnant.  The feeling of constant weakness, throwing up continuously multiple times per day for the last 5 months, barely able to consume more than 500-600 calories a day and complaining to my mom, husband, or friends who can relate doesn't make me any less great full that I'm expecting.  But it is entirely harder than I ever expected, and it amazing to have support or people that understand and sympathize with exactly what I'm feeling.

Just remember those that are complaining about being sick are happy, estatic, excited mom's to be whose bodies are changing rapidly without any control and sometimes it is difficult, depressing, and exhausting but it's not something we would trade the world for.  There are many many people on this app who have waited an extremely long time to conceive and their uneasiness has nothing to do with how happy they are.

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Just bc someone wants a baby don't mean they want the awful side effects that come along with it. Moms come on here to vent and most can relate. It's so idiotic to post something like this on a pregnancy app!

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Wait until you vomit through your nose . bet you'll complain then lol

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I hate pregnancy! I'm in 1st trimester with my 2nd baby and I'm already dreading the next 8 months! I'm sorry but I am! It's the outcome everyone prays for! Everyone is entitled to their opinion and to complain when they feel like crap!

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Because pregnancy sucks ass. Its not that we dont want it, its that SUCKS ASS. If you have an easy pregnancy good for you, but some people are constantly and violently sick, constantly in the hospital, cant eat, cant sleep, and are physically INCAPABLE of enjoying it. You think the ones who complain dont instantly swallow that shit once the baby gets here? Thats the only reason its worth it lol.

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It wasn't that I wanted to be pregnant, I just really wanted a baby. While pregnancy has its awesome points, it can suck as well. While we were ttc, I told my husband I wish I could blink my eyes and just have the baby. We even talked about adoptuon, but the process is too long and expensive (from what we've heard).

My first 2 pregnancies were nothing like this one. I was just dreading the last couple months when we talked about having a baby. With my last, I stretched so big, I tore muscle in my stomach and had exposed nerve endings that hurt so bad, I hated wearing shirts.

This pregnancy, I have been sick as a dog. I can't eat, everything is disgusting, I can't exercise, my 4 yr old wants to play and I just can't. I feel horrible. I know it will pass, and it will be worth it in the end. I have lost 11 pounds. And I'm only 14 wks. Yes, I complain, I freakin hate being nauseous. That's my right. If you dont, that's great for you. But it kind of sucks to put them down for being miserable. Everyone's pregnancy is different.

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Dude, I've been pregnant twice. Once with one, the other with twins. It sucks. My Singleton used to beat the shit out of me from the inside out. My stomach would do all sorts of creepy things.

With my twins, holy moly. It was easy until I got so big I thought I was going to rip in half. The exhaustion was horrible. Heartburn was not the word for what I had. An irrupting volcano of molten lava sounds like a better fit. Then cholestasis.... Oh god the cholestasis.

What I went through in both pregnancies, I had every right and reason to bitch. When I get pregnant again, I will bitch again.

Pregnancy is not easy, even if it is 100% wanted and planned.

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Just because someone complains doesn't mean they are not greatful and happy with their pregnancy. 😒 Things are new and different and not every pregnancy is textbook perfect. Worry about yourself and not others.

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Why complain if you knew going into it that this would happen. Like why are you schocked that you gained 15 pounds. My point is what is the purpose of complaining it's not gonna make the situation better. I'm entitled to my opinion just u say ur entitled to complain.

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