Are you okay with your SO going to strip clubs with or without you?

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I was thinking about my ex recently and he always tried getting me to go to strip clubs with him and I went once. I was uncomfortable the whole time and pissed because the stripper was all over him. My boyfriend now thinks strip clubs are gross and I'm glad because I don't like them.

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No he's looking at other women and going to think about having sex with them. that's basically cheating in my opinion. The only women he should be looking at and putting his hands on is you

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I don't mind. I don't see how women don't understand that no matter how all over your bf the stripper is, it's just her job. She has no interest in him other than his money. And I trust my SO so I know he's not gonna offer her money for sex. 
I would love to go to a strip club eventually. Never been. But I also wouldn't care if my boyfriend went without me.

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Disclaimer: I completely trust my boyfriend and I know that it's a stripper's job to dance on them. But, it makes me uncomfortable and I don't like going. If he wanted to go, I wouldn't piss and pout, but I'm glad he doesn't like going either. Makes things easier.

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Nope... But only because I have so many self image issues.. Which he 100% understands so he doesn't want to go because he knows it would hurt me.

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I am ok with both. I went with my ex boyfriend and we had a blast all the girls were all over me asking me about my make up lol he was kind of jealous 😂

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He's a man. His eyes still work. I'd rather him go and stare for a couple of hours than to go out and actually do something with some random person. I know at the end of the day, he's still coming back to me every night and no one else. but then again he won't go to things like that or even watch porn with real people in it ( anime ) just bc I'm the only girl he wants to see and do things with.

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Honestly, I don't mind it. My boyfriend is of legal age to go and I'm not so I couldn't go with him if I wanted to lol. I don't think of it as him going to see "other women" per-say, to me they're just entertainers and it's just a fun vibe/experience. I wouldn't want him to go without telling me though. That makes me feel like he's doing something more that would really upset me.

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Personally to me it's a no no - if it wasn't a serious relationship, sure I'd let my man go
But my current man, no way!! He is going to go think about having Sex with other woman - going to go have a sexual experience with another woman. That's cheating in my opinion. He may not be physically cheating, but mentally, yes

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I luckily have a boyfriend that feels the same way I do about strip clubs. Waste of money. 😏 I found a good one . I'm not okay with that. I'm sure he wouldn't want me at one either.

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he can go either with me or without me. no hard feelings.

Are you okay with your SO going to strip clubs with or without you?

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