My boyfriend forces anal sex on me?

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We've been living together for over a year. I've known anal is one of the things he likes but sometimes I feel pressured to do it. I've given in a couple times before but last night he tried fingering my ass, I let him (just trying not to be rude) but when he tried to lube me up for his penis, I was just like I don't know about this I'm not really in the mood. Then he says I always do this & he never denies me regular sex why can't I do this for him & so on & so on. He proceeded to call me a liar & said I shouldn't pretend to be okay with it if I'm not. Our relationship is pretty solid besides this. I just don't see how this not being something I'm into makes me a liar....
I've told him I feel pressured but it's like he'll leave it alone for the moment then come back with it a week later.

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If you don't give him your consent, it's rape. You don't owe him anything. It's your body and if he pressures you into something you don't feel comfortable with, maybe you need to find a new partner.

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Try fingering his ass and see how he feels about it. 
By the way, sounds like an abusive relationship, regardless off how "solid" you think it is. He's a jerk and I really hope you end the relationship before things get worse.

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My bf wants to too. I dont like it. Ive given in a few times.. and at times I think it feels good but overall I want to avoid. I know most diseases comes from anal.. so after he tries I get him to hop in the shower with me fast. Ive also had a few bladder infections from it.. due to him trying then just going back in my vagina. Talk to him straight up.. sometimes saying no during sex might turn them on more -.- .. I sat my boyfriend down and we found some common ground. Im open to his sexual needs but he has to respect my limits too.

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Saying no to a sexual act that makes you uncomfortable is not rude!!!! Forcing you to do it is rude... Guilting and pressuring you if rude.

He doesn't "deny you" regular sex, but would he if you had a fetish that made him uncomfortable?

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Sounds to me he likes to mess with your mind to get what he wants. I'd end it.

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This is an example of coercion, doing something because you feel obligated or don't want him to feel bad. It's a form of rape and sexual assault so please be careful and just say NO.

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Remind him that it's not all about him. You are having sex too and it's not something you particularly like. If he complains, tell him you think it would be hot if you could put things in his ass. See how he likes it 😂 Unless he does...

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Ugh I've been there. It's hard to say no when it's someone you love. Just stand your ground and tell him if he loves you he will respect your boundaries. Good luck 💕

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Try the grapefruit technique on him and he'll leave it alone I promise.

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Hell no. You should do what kourtney k did with Scott she bought a dildo and she would pressure him just like he would to her and he didn't like it and he stopped hahaha

My boyfriend forces anal sex on me?

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