I would much rather wait for the 14 to see if I can start labor naturally but if I wait till then my mom and sister (who live out of state) will not be able to get time off to be out here to see my baby for a long time. They have been here for a week already waiting for baby to arrive. Also my SO's family will not be able to meet the baby for a week after its born... So while the 14 is ideal for me wanting to go naturally the 11 works best for family.