How is female orgasm supposed to feel like?

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I'm 16 and when my boyfriend fingers me, most of the time it feels like I'm going to pee when it gets too intense and I don't want to end up embarrassing myself. The feeling goes away every time i get him to stop when it gets so intense like it's going to explode. My boyfriend tells me that it's normal to feel that way and I should just release the feeling without any fear that I'll be embarrassed in front of him. Is that how approaching orgasms are supposed to feel like? I think he's a little disappointed that he didn't make me orgasm but I feel like it's mostly on my part as I'm too tensed up and i just don't dare to. How should I calm myself down and reach orgasm?

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Okay small little rant about the ignorance of some people that decided to comment on this post. 16 years old. Okay maybe a freshman in high school. High school is when horizons were open and I myself wanted to experience things with people and partying. Im pretty sure I lost my virginity summer after my freshmen year and got fingered during it for the first time. And noo I wasn't a hoe soo don't try me. But if this little girl wants to try something new  let her and give her advise not be rude. She was asking because she felt comfortable enough. Keep your ugly, shitty comment to yourself. And please to put any comment that are nasty under this because im grown and have a baby on the way and don't have the time. And Hunny and organism is the best feeling and you will definitely know when you have it. Don't listen to people that bring negativity ❤️

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Only thing a 16 year old should be worried about is school not sex 😂 what is this world coming to ? Try asking your parents this question 😭

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Sounds like he's being too rough. Try to pee before you get intimate. Try to tell him what's feeling good and what doesn't. No woman is the same and some directing is ok! This is the issue with kids learning stuff from porn LOL. No you shouldn't feel the urge to pee though. I was well into my 20s with my husband before I ever had a truly sexually satisfying experience. So practice makes perfect and only you know what feels good to you.

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practice alone, this way you know what you like and how it feels! it shouldn't feel like you have to pee but more like you don't want it to end.

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Most people lose their virginity at 16 or younger so the people who are telling you you're too young just ignore them.

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I was fifteen when I experienced first. Now its an every time ordeal. Try doing it yourself, getting to know what you like. You will know when you feel it because there won't be a need to stop until you're done

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Sorry little rant. 16 is the legal age to have sex so why wouldn't they start exploring it just because some people wait till there older doesn't mean every does so let the girl do what ever she wants it's not your life so if your not gonna help her don't reply.

And in answer to your question a female orgasm does feel like you need to wee all he's doing is hitting your G spot which gives the same feeling of needed the toilet. My advice Is don't hold back next time you feel it x

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When he fingers you is he sticking his fingers in or is he rubbing your clit? A lot of women have a hard time reaching climax from penetration like that alone and it might be he's doing it too rough! He needs to massage the upper part of your vagina and see if that helps!

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That's feeling of wanting to pee is called squirting if you push and go with you you'll probs have a pretty good orgasm

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Everyone's so quick to be upset because 16yrs is not a bad age to have sex. I beg to differ, learn to work and clean you house, do chores and go to school then when your older then think about sex. That's why this world is all screwed up, babies having babies and worst of all, all sorts of STDS,. please.

How is female orgasm supposed to feel like?

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