Uncomfortable . Help

Sorry for TMI

well I am uncomfortable with the hear down there and sometimes it itches a lot and I am 17 now and I always tried to clean as much as I can but I have a lot of discharge during the day that it makes hard for me to stay fresh and the hear down there makes it even harder because I have really thick one and I don t wanna shave it because I can t stand it when tries to grow again and I don t wanna wax it because my mom thinks it too soon for me to do that . By the way I am virgin and wanna stay that way till marriage

So please help :(