Blighted Ovum

Jennifer
I am seeking some encouragement and possibly someone who has been through this before--
We are pretty sure I have a blighted ovum. At this point after two scans and having my HCG levels I am torn. Praying for a better out come but I don't think it looks good. 
Have you had one? Have you been diagnosed and had a healthy baby? when do you wait for a d&c ? I am scared, confused upset heart broken... 
After 5 years of trying this is how it ends? It can't. 😥 it just can't. 😔