Working moms vs stay at home moms

Why must it always be about who has it harder. I myself am a stay at home mom. I commend working moms but I also commend sahms. We all have it hard, we all have our struggles . They are just two different lifestyles . I don't think one is harder than the other . I think they are both hard . What works for one doesn't necessarily work for another . There is positives and negatives to both .. They are just different and that's okay. Us moms make a lot of sacrifices for our babies ! All of us do! We should build each other up instead of tearing one another down . What are your thoughts?