Is it ok?

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I have one child already and only want 2. I found out I was pregnant and was so happy cause we've been trying for 3 years. I went the the dr and had an ultrasound. I'm having twins. I'm kind of upset up having two. We just moved/bought a three bedroom home and do not plan on moving ever. So now my two twins will always have to share a room. I also only wanted two children. Is it normal to feel like this? I'm not going to get an abortion... And I know this feeling will pass and in a few months I'll be excited I'm sure.... But I just feel terrible for feeling this way.

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This makes me think of gender disappointment. Like you're so excited for one, get the other, and you're upset about it. Nothing wrong with being disappointed with your life not working out like you planned. Obviously, you'll get over it, and be excited.

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Hey, I know twins who grew up in a 10 bedroom house and they still shared a bedroom. It's a twin thing. Kids don't need their own room. It's a myth. My dad built a 12 bedroom house and my sisters (not twins) always ended up sleeping in each other's rooms because the house was too big and they enjoyed the company.

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My twins have shared a room since birth. They want to share a room, we separated them for a few weeks and they asked to be put back together. I promise they'll be fine.

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You'll be okay, twins are special and they'll be fine sharing a room. You only wanted two but hey you got 3, you're not gonna love the 3rd child any less and this way you couldn't possibly be talked into a 3rd pregnancy.

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Don't be angry with yourself for having a natural reaction to change. You were set on things going a certain way and now you are forced to adjust. What's important is that you're open to the possibility of your feelings changing. Twins are a big deal, first child or not. They are a blessing but you have a right to be caught off guard.

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That's the same as gender disappointment. I know unwanted a Girl so bad and ended up with a boy. Now I am in love with my little boy and would love another....The feeling will pass. And it is completely normal :)

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I shared a room with my twin and it was amazing...  Thunderstorms were full of giggling fits ....   Talking about movies, reading books to each other,  talk about our day.. It's like having a sleep over with your best friend... Always 😊

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Pregnancy disappointment is normal and will usually pass. Don't worry about it.

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You are entitled to feel however you do. I'm sure you'll get over it and be a great mom.

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I'm sure the way u feel is normal...most people expect only one baby so I'm sure it throws things off a bit at first but God gave u those two precious babies for a reason and like u said the feeling will pass...enjoy your beautiful blessings congrats! 😊

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