My family are normally really close but they hate my partner and Since being pregnant it has just got worst & worst. Me and my boyfriend have had an up & down 14 month relationship with some very low points but we are trying to work hard at it and be together but my family just won't appect it. They keep saying I don't care about them, I am chosing him over them! An example is that I am giving my baby my surname with my boyfriends surname after as I think it's fair it's both our baby but my mum says I know how she feels about it and I should respect her enough not to put his name there too!