Ingrown hairs 😯

My belly has gotten too big to see "down there" and I've gotten something which I assume is an ingrown hair cause it hurts like one! I begged my hubby to check it out but he refuses! Also I've stopped shaving because 1. I don't want pimples or ingrown hairs and 2. I can't see! Haha! I feel terrible cause I know it probably looks like a jungle. I have been waxed once before and I swore to myself I would never do it again because it was so painful! Please tell me that some of you other ladies feel my pain!