So my so will tell me things like I smell, or comments on when I haven't shaved and on my weight. He does this "jokingly" and doesn't understand why I get upset about it. I don't know why he doesn't get why his comments get to me. I know he loves me but I question it when everything out of his mouth is the opposite. I don't believe he's ever called me pretty or told me he loves me without me saying it first or asking him if he does. He wonders why I'm insecure yet sees no problem in making these comments. Am I being sensitive ?