Hey ladies! :)

I wasn't sure where to post this so I figured this group was the way to go. I have been with my wonderful boyfriend for almost a year,he is very kind and sweet however he absolutely hates my ear piercings. I don't have many just my industrial on my right ear and each of my ear lobes has two piercings. I was really hoping to go for my third piercing on my ear lobe but I know my boyfriend would absolutely hate it. Should I respect his wishes and just forget about it? Or should I just go ahead and get it anyways? Any similar experiences out there? 😥