I'm relieved to have a group support. No one understands the hurt or heartache of a mother who miscarried.  I really believe people just think it's sad for a week and then it's over.  Everyone is different but the grief is a process .  Had 2 MC with husband latest March 4.  An emotional day all and all because it was my deceased grandmothers birthday.  Getting ready in the morning I was crying not even aware I was going to miscarry and then all the sudden I had a strong visualization of my grandmother in my face and MC that day.  I keep telling myself that it was my grandmother that was coming to care for the baby. My heart aches and hormones are out of whack. Glad to be here with you all . To help one another through this is a blessing .