No sex :( advice ?

Question

Hey I'm 36 + 6 weeks pregnant and my hubby works out of town on a 20 days on 10 off rotation. He got home from his first shift without me (we worked together until I started mat leave) so we haven't had sex for 20 days obviously, and now he's been home for 2 full days and everytime I try to kiss him or initiate sex it just doesn't happen. 
I'm freaking out like I'm already having issues with self confidence and him not wanting me is just kicking me while I'm down. 
How do I approach this without sounding bitchy or needy. Anyone else have this issue ?  He's nice to me and always tells me I'm beautiful but I feel like he's just saying that and I don't know if it's this giant stomach that's turning him off :( what do I do

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I think you should talk to him , if it's the belly he will tell you. If he's tired then he will tell you. I'm going through the same thing but I started to nag & it pissed him off. I recommend talking through your problems before you start overthinking. You are beautiful belly & all!

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My husband was the same and I was always nagging him about it but he said he just feels weird doing it with the baby in there. I read up on it and it says some men's sex drive decreases when their SO is pregnant and that things should go back to normal after the birth. Just talk to him and ask him what the reason is but i'm sure it has nothing to do with not being attracted to you anymore.

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Just ask him. Be like hey,wanna have sex?

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Yeah, that's about the point where my hubby had issues....baby was too active and in the way and it was a big mental thing for him.

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You should definitely talk to him about it!!! I feel like I make the moves on the hubby at the worst times possible for him. Lol but he still does it as those are the only times I'm feeling good and not as exhausted from taking care of our 10 month old full time and while being 30+ weeks pregnant LOL.

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I think may be he is worried he might hurt you and your baby while having sex... You need to talk to him about it. He is just worried I guess as you're almost there!

No sex :( advice ?

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