Ok so I don't want a baby shower. My family and friends are giving me a hard time about it. I had a bridal shower and it was a complete nightmare. I am grated for the gifts but I hate being the center of attention and it makes me feel bad people spending money on me. I can purchase the items I need myself. I hate going to showers they are usually boring and the games are lame. So no baby shower for me. Am I being ridiculous?