Finally hubby and I engaged for the first time since making this baby.

Hubby wouldn't admit to being weirded out but was always too tired or stressed.

I never pressured him and turns out he just needed some time. I'm sure there are others going thru this. Feeling huge and like a stranger in your own body, its how I am feeling. We talked, found other ways to be intimate but nothing like the real thing to put a spring back in your step.

I hope that the rest of you dealing with this manage to find something that works for you. You are definitely not alone. Hang in there!

This is the post I wish I had read a month ago, that's why I'm posting it. Hope it doesn't offend anyone.