Baby name frustration!!!!

My husband and I are having a heck of a time picking out TWO names that we love! We have one that we are absolutely set on, but a while ago I told a friend of mine how much I loved it and months later, she's 1 week ahead of me in pregnancy and STOLE MY NAME! She's like "oh how funny, that's our top pick" I'm so annoyed because she heard it from me. It's not a common enough name that two people in the same small group of friends would both have separately picked out! Then get this: she tells me "I know you love it, and we still have others were deciding on, so if your babies end up being girls we will let you have it!"! AWESOME! THANK YOU? Right? You'd think. So then a week later (last night) she texts me saying "well my husband really likes that name so let's talk about it! That's our top pick and we have 1 more for runner up" WHAT!?!? You said I could have it! I CAME UP WITH IT, she stole it, gave it back & then stole it again! I'm so pissed off. They got married 2 weeks before us also and did this the whole time, they took every idea we had! I'm so frustrated. Clearly we won't be telling them our ideas anymore!!! Luckily for me, even though she's a week ahead of me, I am having twins so mine will come well before hers and I am using my name that I love! And if she wants to have a baby with the same name afterwards then so be it. Ugh!