Sex isues...push him or wait?

Question

So... Don't get me wrong I'm not complaining he is a wonderful husband, very good with kids and always carrying for me. We used to be very close and we still are. I'm now 14 weeks. At the first trimester I had a sch so sex was a no and now that the belly is kind of showing he is afraid of harming it. I know it's stupid but I'm afraid we will not be the same if we dont have this time together now that the baby is not here. What should I do?

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Babys very protected so sex will not hurt. I wouldn't say"push him" but I'd definitely try to talk him into it 😂 Me and my SO went from multiple times a day and night to barely twice a week 😒😒😒😒 and I'm constantly so horny. I talked to him about it last night and told him what I want and if it doesn't change then I'll bring it up again

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I went off sex very early in my pregnancy due to pelvic rest.. I'm now 22 weeks and we've maybe done It 3x since I've been pregnant.  I've been cleared to have sex but I am just not into it. The last time we tried I got on top.. made it about 45 seconds and was breathing like an asthmatic walrus..that ended it. I'm carrying so high no position feels good.. my husband just finally gave up lol. And he may have a real fear. Men don't understand the female body.. if he doesn't want to have sex and isn't giving you signs he's cheating I wouldn't worry. I told my husband sex will resume 6 to 8 weeks after birth lol

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My husband had this problem, so I was going to just pleasure him, if you know what I mean, we ended up having wonderful passionate sex. So I guess I'm saying, he wants it too he's just worried, put his mind at ease.

Sex isues...push him or wait?

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