I'm having a gender reveal party at my house

Next Tuesday the 13th having close family members some who haven't seen my house since I moved in a year ago almost so I want it to look nice.

I asked my bf to do the dishes which have been sitting in the sink for 4 days. And some were on counter and I couldn't take it anymore. While I folded the laundry and mopped.

And he goes ill do it tomorrow I told him nicely no can u do it today they been sitting there long enough he got up flipping out and goes idt u have touched a dish since we moved in. But I'll do it since ur not. I go I'm mopping and folding laundry. Help me a little. And we have a 2 story house. So he did i picked up his beer cans put nxt to sink cause they had to be rinsed out.

After he was done with dishes he helped me fold laundry. Than he spilled his beer on the floor and just down I go can u clean that up jusy use the mop I just put the last of the laundry in. So he doesn't even use the one I was talking about I go babe that one's not wet. He goes I couldn't find the other one (remind u it's right next to the one he grabbed ) we have all out mops brooms dust pans hanging so I go in the closet and he just threw it in the closet I also let it go. Picked it bck up. We sat on couch watched tWD. He spills another beer (he wasn't drunk just dropped it and it foamed) huge puddle on the floor he sits down I go r u serious? ! I just mopped can u clean it he goes I will. Then tells me to go stir the macaroni so I did cause it was for both of us I ended up cleaning the beer up once again... than before bed my sheets are silky so they come up easy and I told him I'm gonna get the tighter one it'll fit better and not come up so much. So I go downstairs get the sheet come up I go babe can u get uo.plesse and just help me fast he goes omfg ur driving me insane will u have the baby already everyone's bed sheet comes up. So I turned the light off got in bed and set the other sheet on the floor and started crying I work 6 days a week he worked 3 10 hr days.... I also asked him to bring down the last load of laundry please so tomorrow we can fold the 2 that are left and we'll be caught up pretty much. And he goes no I'm not doing that I'll do it tomorrow I go babe u will not I asked u to bring the load in the basement to dry being I can't lift it and I had to ask u 10 times to the point u got mad. So I have a basket of wet clothes sitting in the hall way... like I'm already stressed enough :( and then he expects me to just give him oral...

Idk wat to do.. :(

I'm 15 weeks along first time mom he has 2 previous kids. And I'm having cramping I never relax cause the house gets messy fast due to 2 other kids I just need a break and when I say that he gets mad cause u watch his kids while he's at work even on my only day off I get I would early to make sure there set fed etc so I really don't get time to myself or to really unwind. :(

Advice

Please no bashing