Should I be mad?!

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My boyfriend of 3 years, his mother keeps having dinner and socializing with his ex wife... I haven't told him I know about it. I'm not even sure he knows. She's only met me twice in 3 years. It drives me crazy. His ex is honestly the most two faced person I've ever saw. I have witnessed it first hand. Should I mention it? Should I even care?

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Whether you mention it or not is up to you, but I don't think you should care about it.  It's not hubs meeting secretely with his ex.

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It's none of your business who his mom has dinner with. And why you know about it and he doesn't is weird.. Are you like stalking her or something? Anyways she's a grown woman and can eat dinner with whoever she wants regardless of how you or her son may feel about it. You should just let it go and mind yours

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I happen to be a second wife and I would be furious if that was happening. I would talk with my hubby and let him know about it and how it made me feel but then leave it at that. You can't stop it but your hubby should know that that is going on.

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You should be mad and you should let him know!

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When you're married people become family and I understand some people want to keep those friendships going. Should you be angry? No that be crazy. A little jealous? Sure that's normal.

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I would be mad. That would bother me if i knew my mil was having dinner dates with my partners ex. I find it disrespectful to you both. Why hasnt your man said anything though???

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My bfs mom has at least one of his exes on her FB it bothered me especially since I'm pregnant with my bfs child and she has NO CARE about her grandkid whatsoever...and is kickin me out while I'm trying to save to get an apt for baby and I (bf is free to stay tho)...so I'd say as long as ur Bf isnt meeting with her just be happy.

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She was once her daughter in law.. She may well be close to the woman and doesn't want to lose the closeness or friendship she may have developed. But she should make the same effort to get to know you. X

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You shouldn't really care unless the relationship is serious. Like engaged serious. Sounds like too much baggage for me.

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My mother in law is still friends with his ex girlfriend not even wife. I dont pay attention to it anymore. It used to make me mad but its her own decision. His whole family still talk to her and even have her on facebook. His sister is really good friends with her but not so much with me. Shes nice to me but not as close as she is with his ex. I love my mother in law and i know she loves me like her own daughter. I dont worry about it anymore. I just ignore it and worry about us. Its hard at first but u will look crazy if u make them fight about it. Or they may not like u for that. So now i just worry about the relationship i have with his family because i dont want the place she has or had. I want my on place in the family.

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