Extremely rude!!!

I find it extremely rude when some females tell pregnant women who got pregnant under 3 months of trying, that pregnancy happened to them, they did not try! I mean, since when it turned into a competition? So since I tried for 2 months and I got pregnant, it means I didn't try? I just feel so much hate from these females, I'm really sorry that for some it takes forever but it does not mean that I should feel bad and take my credit away! I tried just as hard as you! I'm sorry, I had to vent!