How often do you orgasm?

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Any tips to help us ladies that don't  experience orgasms?  I only had one like 10 years ago.

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Many women can't achieve orgasm by penetration alone, me being one of them. So hubby is always good about doing clitoral stimulation (whatever method we prefer at the time) to take care of me...usually before but sometimes during.

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Something like only 7% of women can orgasim from vaginal penetration alone. I'm one of those rare few. Best advice I was ever given years ago was by my best guy friend (whom I also slept with when we were both single because we knew, trusted & loved each other. Better than some random person!) to figure out what I really liked and then guide him. So I played around & experimented when masturbating. I figured out what worked for me. My first husband just wanted to do it his way. My husband now... Oh my let me tell you. That elusive & thought to be mythical cervical orgasim does exist, and is as emotionally & physically mind blowing as rumored. This look a long time to accomplish and many nights of learning to be totally in tuned to each other. And honestly it never happened until counseling & we cleared the air of a lot of things. Once that happens oh my oh my. So ladies, experiment alone, experiment as a couple, find out what you really do & don't like & then teach him. He's a guy, they can't get into our heads no matter how much we wish they would. If you don't communicate during sex he's just gonna fumble around & finish first leaving you wanting more & frustrated. Good luck ladies!

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clitoral stimulation is the way to go 😎

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I'm an easy orgasmer. My husband tries his best to beat his top record of 12 in one go. It's all about communication and learning each other's bodies. It may seem awkward, but spend at least one session trying different things and telling each other if you like it and what you like about it so that improvisation can be done in the future.

Also don't fake it.

How often do you orgasm?

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