Any other women S/O doesn't want a girl?

We have been trying for a baby #2 for 9 years so when we found out in February it seems like ever since then I feel like there is not a day goes by that he says he hopes its not a girl and it better be a boy and if it is he wouldn't help me out, I really hope he doesn't mean it but it still hurts.We find out in 2 weeks if it's a boy or girl from genetic testing and I really hope it's a girl! Am I the only one going through this?