Over the past 4 years I've had 3 pregnancy losses, while I know I am not a "mom" in the technical sense, I still feel like acknowledging my pregnancies. I am getting mixed reviews from friends and family about the fact that I want a family ring with the birthstones of when my babies would have been born. I have been told that then I would have to explain to others about my losses. I feel like they just want me to forget about them and move on (I am the only one of my siblings who is having fertility issues).