How am I the bad friend ? Help
You know I feel like I am good friend , I am there when you need me (or at least try) I bend my ass over backwards for a lot of my friends and don't expect anything in return because it's not about that you know..., BUT recently I haven't been , especially towards my so called "best friend" like I have there for her threw thick and fucking thin and not ONE thank you ! But of course like I said its not about that.. A bitch can take sooooo much until your like fuck this I am done your on your own ,don't ask me for shit . Cause lately she only wants to talk to me when she needs something and that is my biggest pet peeve, like at least start a conversation see how I am doing ya know ..
Anyway my uncle (dads brother) is coming to visit from Chicago, and my mom was like we need to clean this house SPOTLESS (yes I am 20 and still live with my mom) she asked to go the mall because she needs a dress and yes I promised I would help , you know as a FRIEND should, but I kinda blew her off because I was my moms prisoner and I told her like look we can do it tomorrow I am sorry .. Tomorrow came around and there was shit to still do AND on top of that a friend showed up out of NOWHERE and I kinda flacked out witch I admit my bad .
Couple days went by and today she finally texted me totally out me down and then ask "oh are you still down to do that " in my head I am like wtf whatever it cannot hurt . I don't have a Facebook so my mom called me in her room to show me what her and my cousin were talking about and this STUPID BITCH was straight talking shit ! Saying how I am a bad friend !? Like wtf !? I have in laws coming in I had to clean no question asked.
Usually I am like whatever I don't care , but this time it got to me like emotionally, I don't know if it my hormones because I might or might not start my period , but it's like how am I the bad friend ??
What should i do ? Cut her off because explaining it to her is like talking to a wall because never thinks she is wrong . Like am I the bad friend?
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