Age of consent questions

If the consenting age is 14 in your area and a 18+yo has sex with a 14 year old that consented, is that still a child to you regardless of the fact that that person consented?

If you're the parent do you pull the statutory rape card anyway to try force a break in the relationship?

Do you think that the older person is a pedophile even though the 14yo consented and is of consenting age?

What if they had been dating a long time and they're relationship was otherwise healthy?

Does the sexes affect your opinion? [The female is oldest different than if the male is oldest]

Does the nature of the relationship [if it isn't straight] affect your opinion?

Should 14yo be able to date at all?

If you think it still should be considered rape, what should happen to the two people since they both consented and no law was broken? If anything.

Is it ultimately the parents fault for not paying attention enough to notice they were dating?/ or ignoring the fact that their 14yo was dating someone 18+?

Let's start a debate. Not a fight.