WTF is his problem?!RANT!!!!

So I had an ectopic pregnancy 😢 March 22nd my baby was taken from me. I could not have sex due to this as we all know. My SO and I have not had sex since February 13th. So I my period stopped yesterday. So I decided tonight was the night!!! I took a shower and got all cleaned up shaves for the first time in like a month. Hubby got home from baseball practice and I told him to get in the shower and get all cleaned up so we can do the Damn thing...... Totally got shot down 😠!!!! WTF you go from wanting it All day everyday to we haven't done it in two mths and now That we can you don't want too???? "We can do it tomorrow" he says!!! Um no dude f you I'll do the s##t myself thank you!!!!