I am beyond aggrivated and don't really believe in talking to family about marrital problems so here it is glow. A few months ago I posted about my husband constantly putting money into his truck (after being laid off for 4 months.) Like $5,000, which is all fine and dandy, but there is a such thing as priorities. We bought an older mobile home for cheap, because 1. I LOVE taking something old and turning it into something new. And 2. That's one less bill/note, because we would be living in something that's paid off. My husband has been laid off, (for five months now) because he had a job out of town, working with the pipeline and they are having to wait on permits or something like that. (I don't know much about all of that, so I don't want to get into detail.) He works with someone we know for now, but it's not steady. My problem is we were staying with my mom until our mobile home is done, but we just recently left, because of issues. So we basically have no where to go. We could have avoided all of this. He didnt ask me or tell me before he quit his local CAREER last year, to work 1,500 miles away from home. He didn't ask me before he bought a truck for $7,000 that would need $5,000 worth of work. I always try to make decisions together. And when I say your married now, we have a nice family car we can share and make due with until we get our home finished, then he says "well if you would have let me be a kid and have all of this stuff before we got married, then I wouldn't make bad decisions. You forced me to marry you!" I did not. He asked me and I didnt even know he was going to. I wanted to, but didn't make him.