Weight gain durinh pregnancy

I'm 19 weeks pregnant (first pregnancy) I just feel and look just fat. My pre pregnancy weight was 175 and now I'm 185 I'm 5'3 and I've never been skinny but I wasn't fat either. I was more in the thick side. None of my clothes fits anymore. I'm only gaining weight in my hips and thighs. I don't have a round baby bump. It makes me so depressed to see all these girls with cute baby bumps and me just looking fat. And I haven't felt my baby move either. Is this normal??