Hubs and pregnancy

Ok so im currently 12 w pregnant and when i told my hubs about what things we should buy for our second he just answered me nothing not even a stroller!!he told he doesnt care about the gender we will buy new things to our first (21 months old) and the other will have some old stuff from our first who is a boy....what is your opinion i feel terrible :( i knew when i told him im pregnant that he doesnt want our second :( i just feel so bad and i wanna cry....two minutes ago i asked him if he is going to love the baby and he answered i have my son you are alone to this i told you i didnt want a 2nd....sorry i just needed to vent