Ingrown Hairs

I stupidly shaved my chest and used nair when i was a kid and it fucked me up. I have burns that look like spots and gross ingrown hairs that cause unpoppable bumps. And its leaving dark spots on me. I use to be so confident im my breast but now i just want to hide them.. Especially since my s/o is a boob guy.. He still likes them anyway but im so insecure about it. Im always on the bathroom plucking them or waxing them to keep up with it but its all too much :( i just made an appointment with a dermatologist so i hope there's something they can do.. I just feel so badly about it..